Sacred Sex
“You know we have been struggling for years. She has gone down this extreme route of spirituality and tells me I am not spiritual enough because I want it more than her. I guess if I were to go to prayers in the morning, she would find me worthy but even then, she tells me women who go through the change just don’t care anymore. Is that true?”
He reached out to discuss his money considering I had been his wealth strategist for several years and the conversation suddenly took a sharp left turn. Ray had never alluded to any difficulties with his wife outside of their money struggles, so I was not totally sure what had caused him to open up with such raw honesty.
“You are teaching about this stuff now, right? I talk to my guy friends, but I need a woman’s perspective.”
Sex.
Depending upon which research study you consult, is the #2 or the #1 reason for divorce. Money being the other. As a good friend of mine always states, “Romance and Finance. If I could just get what I want with regard to romance and finance, life would be grand.”
Last month I blogged, vlogged, and led a workshop which changed to a video (for reasons to be highlighted below) about the topic of SEX! It is in our face 24/7. It is so pervasive we have PG13 movies with scenes that would have been considered pornography in my generation (in my “old” age of almost 50). And, yet, no one is having a HEALTHY, USEFUL, PRODUCTIVE conversation about that which is THE most important relationship for any thriving society – the union between a man and woman who are the foundation of any future growth and hope.
It Matters.
Mom and Dad matter. Marriage matters. Sex inside a COVENANTAL bond matters.
Our sexuality is a DIVINE CREATION and yet we never speak of it with the SACRED REVEREANCE with which it is intended. Instead, we trade SACRED BEAUTY, JOY, LOVE, ABUNDANCE – SACRED TRUTH – for all forms of its counterfeit as we approach our “sex life” as if it is about how we FEEL rather than how God wants us to grow and develop and improve and flourish!
Let’s Get REAL.
People are desperate to have a REAL and CANDID CONVERSATION about sex but they are not yet willing to sit in a room full of strangers which is why the workshop changed to a video. Thus, watch the video [CLICK HERE] and let’s keep talking.
It is my hope that one day we WILL be able to discuss the sacredness of sex in an open forum with just as much honesty as any topic that affects one’s feelings so deeply. Until then, let’s not succumb to the fears, hurts, confusion, mistruths, lies, anger you may have related to this topic such that you forego what is almost always a messy process to complete healing and freedom. It IS possible to be HAPPY when it comes to SEX – YOUR MARRIAGE – YOUR SINGLENESS – YOURSELF!
I’m excited to walk this journey with you as we unveil the practical and research-based information on how to achieve that which we all desire for ourselves and others – to be “happy”. We discover that happiness is attainable and, better yet, sustainable, as long as one is willing to do the work. In my book “The Happiness Formula”, I dive into each element in detail. Order your copy of “The Happiness Formula”, click here and subscribe to my YouTube Channel (click here) for continued insights and updates into HAPPINESS. Thank you for your support!
Kasandra Vitacca Mitchell
Kasandra Vitacca Mitchell is an Author, Speaker, Coach of Wealth & Happiness with a mission to bring research, wisdom, and authenticity to others via “The Happiness Formula.”