Your “true” self is always on display. No matter how much spin or smoke and mirrors it might be possible to create, no matter how many “filters” you use, in spite of your perfectly crafted word choices or skillfully staged images, patterns emerge and Truths speak beyond the words and images. If you could see […]
In December’s “A Few Minutes To Your Happiness,” I exhort you with some pretty strong statements TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO HAVE THE LIFE YOU WANT. You are either a VICTOR or a victim. You only get two choices. Those who succeed, those who have the highest Happiness Quotient (HQ) CHOOSE LIFE!
What are your expectations of others? Are you holding other people to a standard that you do not keep for yourself? Do you allow yourself a LOT of rope, give yourself great grace, offer patience and forgiveness to yourself but cut people off the instant they don’t deliver as you have determined they should? How […]
“Our desire to hold identity-consistent beliefs often far outweigh our goals to hold accurate beliefs. This may be because being a part of a political party or social group fulfills fundamental needs, like the need for belonging, which supersede our need to search for the truth.”* The desire for human bonding and connection is part of our DNA. We […]
To arrive at a place of undeniable, inexplicable, mind-blowing peace, love, freedom – HAPPINESS – is a work of The Divine. After one has accepted that s/he must seek and learn (IQ) and then take actions to grow, improve, change, get better (EQ), s/he then realizes she must let go of the outcome (GQ) for […]
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