Do You Really Want People to Call you “Diva” and “Bitch”?
Have you ever called yourself a “diva”?
Do you call your friends “bitch”?
Far too many of us normalize terms which, regardless of what we tell ourselves they mean, remain words of disrespect, disgust, darkness and death. Sadly, the enemy has convinced good, strong, capable, and worthy people to believe when they speak these terms over themselves or others, they regain power over what they perceive to be that which enslaves. Unfortunately, because these terms are about making our fellow man and woman the enemy, they haven’t done one thing to erase true evil but, rather, expand its reach.
A “diva” is the polar opposite of YHVH’s Divine Design for a woman.
A diva is “a self-important person who is temperamental and difficult to please.” Is it really necessary to explain why one would NOT want to be a diva? And, please, do NOT claim you love Jesus while snapping your fingers and expecting the world to bend to your fickle, selfish ways. A diva is NOT the image of Christ.
And, please, please, please, for the Love of God, stop using the word “bitch”!
The most benign definition is “a female dog.” Otherwise, again, this woman or man is FAR from what God intends for His people as this person who labels themselves a “bitch” and speaks this evil over their so-called friend has just defined themself as “a malicious, unpleasant, selfish person.” A bitch is usually someone who complains and is difficult and unpleasant and, historically, it has been used against a “lewd” woman.
What’s more revealing about how easy it is for the enemy to convince us to believe lies, the word “bitch” has nothing to do with empowerment but is “a person who is submissive or subservient to someone, usually in a humiliating way; a man who willingly or unwillingly submits to the will and control of a dominant partner in a sexual relationship, especially with another man, as in ‘prison bitch.’”
Even when bitch is used to describe a situation there is nothing empowering about it.
When one has completely messed up, bungled a situation, he is said to have “bitched up.” To “sit bitch” is to sit uncomfortably between two others in the middle of the front or back seat of a car, particularly one with a raised section in the middle resulting in being forced to bring one’s knees up in a bent position.” There is absolutely nothing empowering about this word and, yet, good, professional, independent, lovely women who walk in the ways of Yeshua, consistently undermine themselves as they speak disrespect, darkness and death over themselves and others.
For those with eyes to see and ears to hear, YHVH calls us to be “Hebrew” – from the opposite side of what is common to our culture – and “Holy” – set apart and different from the standards of this temporal time. We are instructed to armour up daily so that we will not be ensnared by the enemy and participate in his ways of darkness but are able to walk in and be The Light.
Because YHVH spoke, there was Light.
Because The Great I Am spoke, there was Life.
Because Jesus spoke and all that is alive became known,
WORDS HAVE POWER.
When we speak, we speak LIFE or death. You only have two choices when you speak. There is no grey when it comes to the power of words. You either speak LIFE or death.
Words have power. Please choose wisely.
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Kasandra Vitacca Mitchell
Kasandra Vitacca Mitchell is an Author, Speaker, Coach of Wealth & Happiness with a mission to bring research, wisdom, and authenticity to others via “The Happiness Formula.”